What Is A Eulogy

The eulogy is often one of the most meaningful and memorable parts of a funeral service.

Also known as a homily, a eulogy is a speech that honors the life of the person who died and reflects on the impact they had on family, friends, and others who knew them.

Who should deliver the eulogy?

A eulogy may be delivered by a clergy member, family member, or close friend. Some families choose to have several people share stories and memories rather than relying on a single speaker. At smaller or more informal services, guests may also be invited to stand and share a favorite memory or personal reflection about the person who died.

What are our different options?

Consider meaningful ways to share memories and stories about the person who died. Whenever possible, choose someone who knew them well and can speak personally about their life, character, and relationships. If a religious message or sermon is important to your family, a clergy member can provide that portion of the service while a family member, friend, or several loved ones offer a more personal tribute.

How do we prepare for the eulogy?

If the person giving the eulogy did not know your loved one well, take time to share meaningful stories, memories, and details with them. Think about what made this person special, the moments you shared together, and the qualities you admired most. These personal details can help create a tribute that feels genuine and reflects the life being remembered.